Posts Tagged ‘more money’

Step 4 Time to Commit to Change Your Life & Your Habits

November 11th, 2009

iStock_000007473334Small mindRemember we are in the midst of building our self image!  We have unloaded our past and sent it away for good over the past couple weeks of blogs!  Now we are filling the gap this left.  We started a gratitude list or journal the other day.  Keep it going!  It will feel great!

Okay don’t think we are done because we aren’t.  It really takes some time to change our habitual way of thinking doesn’t it?  Researchers say it takes 21 days to break a habit.  Well, we have not reached 21 days yet.  This is a commitment that we have to make.  How much do we want to keep the same old life?  Many people say yes because it is comfortable.  But really how bad do we want more money?  How bad do we want better relationships?  How bad do we want to raise amazing kids?  Well, we are going for long term pleasure not short term fixes!  Would we be willing to do what it takes to change our life if it meant more money, happier families, better relationships, perfect weight, and better health?  I bet we all say yes!  Where do we want to be this time next year?  We can be in the same place or we can be in a much, much better place!  I choose better!  Are we committed to being in a better place?  YES?  Then let’s start defining what this better place looks and feels like.  Begin working on this.  I will check in with you in a couple days!

Esther Hicks on Lack of Money

October 9th, 2009

Many of us struggle with our money situation.  Our focus is on the LACK of money and when our focus is on the lack we give it more power!  Esther talks about when we get into alignment with having money and we ask for it and have faith that it is coming ………..then it comes!  We have to keep the doubt out of the picture because those doubts will STOP it from coming.  I love how Esther talks about this manager that you can give your problems to and ask for answers.  This is truly how it works. 

I was trying to accumulate more money.  I quit my corporate America job to start my own business.  I finally started to ask “my manager” for help and it came.  Within 4 months I was making crazy amounts of money!  I am able to pay for my daughter’s college education and was able to give part of this money to our favorite charity!  They were so thankful!  It was amazing to have it start working for us!  You have to BELIEVE!!!  Start now!

Why are other people successful, have more money and a good job and I don’t?

September 4th, 2009
I am Amazing!

I am Amazing!

Define what successful means to you first of all.  Is it more money, happiness, a better job, or a good marriage?  Write down what your definition of success is.  Then start adding details to define this more clearly - if I had 1 million dollars in the bank and am working at the job of my dreams.  Write details.  Where would you live?  Where would your vacations take you?  Who would be your friends?  

Pay attention to other people that you think are successful.  What attitude do they have?  How have they come to be successful?  Start wearing their attitude in your shoulders.  Feel how you think they would feel and add that to your walk.  It sounds weird but if really works.  I have several people that I can feel their confidence so I pick it up and put it on my shoulders and instantly I sit up straighter.  I get a smile on my face and my attitude changes.  I start believing I AM successful just like them.  The more you do this the easier it is to BE this!  Start today!

How do I earn more money?

September 3rd, 2009
Are you counting pennies?

Are you counting pennies?

Always feel like you are counting your pennies?  How do you earn more money?  This is easy.  You have to pay attention to how you focus on money in the first place.  Right now today do you focus on the LACK of money?  If this is yes then you need to stop and change this focus to having more money than you can spend.  Instead of dreading the mailbox due to the bills you get everyday start focusing on the checks that are coming your way. 

 I have to say this is a little weird and you will feel foolish as if you are lying to yourself in the beginning.  Note this – everything new we learn in our lives is learned through repetition.  Keep repeating this over and over….I have more money that I can spend and it feels amazing!  You will start noticing more ways to earn money.  You will stop focusing on your debt.  Then you will open the door to more money in your life.

Need More Money to Get Ahead?

September 1st, 2009
Want More Money to Get Ahead?

Want More Money to Get Ahead?

 Well ahead of what?  Many times we don’t get ahead in life because we never define what that means to us exactly.  Do we want more money?  Yes okay then how much?  And what are we going to do for that money?  We need to clearly state what our plans are and then we can start “getting ahead”. 

We also have to be careful that we stop focusing on not being ahead.  If all our focus stays on wanting to get ahead then we give power to the wanting.  We only get more of the wanting.  But if we start focusing on being ahead and having more money and what that means in our lives then it can’t help but start to appear in our lives.  We are already getting what we are focusing on now right?  We want to get ahead – always wanting never having.  Start focusing on having and it will be on its way!