I was at a couple different parties this past weekend and came across a mom that really loved her daughter.  BUT there was a problem – all I heard from her was everything her daughter was weak in.  She was really focusing so much energy and power to everything her daughter was doing wrong.  Please watch your words, your tones and your actions when you talk TO your kids and when you talk ABOUT your kids to others.  If you want your kids to respect you, if you want your kids to behave better, if you want your family to stop driving you crazy then the first place of change is with you!  I know this is a bit harsh but I had to figure it out too!  This is the hardest place yet the easiest place to make a change.  I created more peace in my home when I changed me.  Then my kids were respectful and happy. 

I challenge you to make your words, your actions and your tone to reflect the love you have for your kids this week.  We do love our kids.  I am not doubting this at all.  Sometimes we just stink at showing it or we were trained to show it in ways that defeat our goals.  So, everything that comes out of your lips and all the energy you place towards your kids this week is full of love and peace.  It starts with YOU!